A SIMPLE NUDGE and A KIND WORD

During my time, we were only able to send out messages through a conventional physical mail to our loved ones living abroad and to those who lives in a distant place. Waiting time before the recipients receive their letter could take around a month or two sometimes. So when we have something to say on the letter, we might as well ensure we've got every details written down. Be it about having a new house, or or new partner, what we did last summer, wedding plans. Anything whether it's good or bad.

Calls through a home phone were not cheap years back. Similarly, it's a way too expensive for us to make calls via a cellular phone. We were only consider to use either those devices when there was a life and death situation to notify our loved ones where it is imperative in nature. It would be too lavished for us to use these technologies when we would just have to chit chat with someone considerably for a lengthy period of time. It was really economically impractical so the conventional snail mail was very much preferred.

In spite of whatever option we choose, we all have the same goal, that is, to connect and build strong relationship.

We only got a chance to see our relatives and friends who were in a far-off place during summer or on a special occasions like birthday, or Christmas or any special events. Nevertheless, no matter how far they were we do stay connected despite the distance. In most cases, even without having to communicate regularly, we aim to manage our relationship with each other as healthy as possible. As far as one can tell, when we see each other again at some point after a very long time without a chat all, we don't feel detached. This even if we don't see and talk to each other for like years at times. For us, distance is not a barrier to lose contact with friends and relatives during the old days, well it should not be in the first place.

Living in this digital age we have numerous options to get in touch. We get to choose which software applications we prefer to use making it easy for everyone to connect virtually. Most software companies offer them for free to download anytime through our computer and mobile devices. Added to that, internet connections are fairly fast and convenient. The introduction of the sms and electronic mails that almost mimic the features of the snail mail where even pictures can be attached and sent at the same time at a low price became the prevalent mode of chatting. Social media on the other hand became widespread these days which facilitates convenient way to connect with everyone anytime and everywhere in the globe. Also, variety of application messengers are ready for use to help us create a network of friends. Most program application has an integrated features such sms, voice and even video capability allowing the end-users to chat with the other people real time.

A long distance relationship can be very challenging especially when there is a lack of miscommunication or worse there's an absence of it. Communication is an important factor that bridge the gap between individuals.

Given the countless alternatives to connect with anyone, it is essentially close to impossible to re-unite with our life-long friends. We should just be willing to make time for them. Learning how to use the newer technologies are mostly intuitive. One doesn't have to become a tech-savvy to use a very basic messenger technology.

Social media has been one of my significant resource to reconnect with my longtime friends and relatives to whom I had never talk and seen for years. It presents an opportunity for me to meet different people across the globe. I was able to meet new friends and mentors out of the blue. Blogging to be specific, provided me the opportunity to build more meaningful relationships.

My best pal and I had been friends since grade 2. We went to the same school from grades 2 and 3 then on grade 4 and 6 I went to a different school. Eventually in high school we became schoolmates again till the end of our high school year. We didn't get into the same university though. We took a different direction in life as we grew up but in the long run, nevertheless, we managed to build our friendship solid. Until today, we still remain friends in spite of physical distances. We rarely chat since I moved to the west part of the globe whilst he and his family lives in the southern hemisphere but we still chat over a messenger whenever the opportunity permits. Timezone has been a constant challenge nonetheless.

A similar scenario with my close friend who lives in my home country who is finishing her doctorate degree and another dear friend in Europe. I seldom would have a chance to chat with them due to time difference. Though not so frequent, me and my high school best buddies were still be able to find time to connect via electronic messenger. But really, we do still chat and tease each other the same way we tease each other out comfortably same way we do during the old days.

Communication is indeed vital and one of the foundation to any kind of relationships. A simple gesture of “sup” “hey” “yo” to an old pal sent through a chat messenger could means a lot to them. A birthday greeting for a new found friends could bring smile to their face implying thoughtfulness.

Imagine that moment of heartwarming empathy when you send a single phrase condolences to a childhood friend whom you hadn't had a talk for years who recently lost a special someone.

Or for an instance, congratulating a former colleague who happens to be a single mother who has given birth for the very first time.

Sending comforting words to those who are suffering or to those who suffered a major depression after a experiencing a traumatic event in life. Words like - ”I'm here for you buddy” or “I care about you” “I'm here when you need to talk”. Simple but meaningful words.

We''ll never know until we gave it a try. At least we made an honest effort to gave others a caring nudge the moment they needed them the most. A friendly poke that generously implies care.

As always, for the best part, I would love to share these beautiful bible verse from the book of Hebrews 10:24-25.

And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching. (Hebrews 10:24-25 NIV)

Hope this article brought you positive perception in life as you move forward on your unique amazing journey. Consider taking every steps to connect with a new friend creating a new link and a new friendships. Taking into account, reconnecting with your old fella.

Hope this article brought you a positive perception in life as you move forward on your unique amazing journey. Spread the Courage you have in your heart that is meant to be shared.

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